Use these slowly. Do not punish honesty.
1. What has been weighing on you lately? 2. Where have you felt alone? 3. What do you miss about us? 4. What helps you feel known by me? 5. What is one small affection habit you would like back? 6. What do you wish I understood about your current stress? 7. Where have I misunderstood you? 8. What memory of us still makes you smile? 9. What is one fear you have about our marriage? 10. What is one hope you still carry for us? 11. How can I make home feel safer for you? 12. What conversation have we been avoiding? 13. Where do you need more tenderness from me? 14. Where do you need more respect from me? 15. What is one way we can laugh together this week? 16. What habit has made us feel distant? 17. What habit would help us feel close again? 18. What do you appreciate about me right now? 19. What do you need me to stop minimizing? 20. How can we protect time together? 21. What is one thing I do that makes you feel chosen? 22. What is one apology still needed? 23. What kind of marriage do we want our children to see? 24. What do we need to pray about, reflect on, or decide together? 25. What is our next faithful step?